The Swan Collection Card Set with Reflection Program & Journal
Be guided in turning your unspoken words into an exquisite gift.In the remaining months of their life, share with someone you care about how their presence contributed to your life.
The Swan Collection Card Set with Reflection Program & Journal
Be guided in turning your unspoken words into an exquisite gift.
In the remaining months of their life, share with your dying parent, partner, child, sibling, relative, or friend how their presence contributed to your life and well-being.
Not sure yet? Read more below.
When I knew my mother was soon going to die, I felt an urgency to still honestly express and share my unspoken words of appreciation, mourning, love and compassion.
I wanted her to be known with how she affected me and my well-being.
Laying in her hospice bed, a smile appeared on my mom’s face when she said:
‘I did not expect this! They are beautiful! Keep drawing!’
When I knew my mother was soon going to die, I felt an urgency to still honestly express and share my unspoken words of appreciation, mourning, love and compassion.
I wanted her to be known with how she affected me and my well-being.
Laying in her hospice bed, a smile appeared on my mom’s face when she said:
‘I did not expect this! They are beautiful! Keep drawing!’
Is someone you care about nearing the end of their life?
May you, and those around you, be held with warmth, love, compassion and accompaniment.
Knowing we are going to lose someone is experienced differently by everyone.
But for most, lots of different emotions are present in this time of life. Thoughts about what was, what could have been and what will never happen or happen again, arise when we least expect them.
We get in touch with whom and what matters to us and though we may be emotionally close – or not – with our person, sharing what we still want to be known for or what we want them to know, isn’t as easy as one might think.
Are you uncertain how to start a conversation about what you still want to share because you feel …
- ambivalent about what you do and don’t want to share?
- hesitant to express your deepest beautiful and/or sad truth?
- concerned because you know you are running out of time?
- fearful that you will be left with your own agonizing thoughts about what you should have said while it was still possible?
- worried that later on this will evoke feelings of guilt, shame, pain or suffering within yourself?
If you were to be guided in this emotional time of your life, would it be easier for you to start conversations you feel sensitive about?
Think of this time in your relationship as the last opportunity to genuinely share what matters to you and perhaps even have open-hearted and heartfelt conversations.
As an empathy based conflict coach and mediator, I am here to support you have as little regrets and pain, and as much connection, harmony and inner peace as possible. Let me guide you to …
1. Reflect on your experience of the relationship with the person you care about and identify how they effect your life and well-being.
2. Prepare to confidently having conversations you might fear to have but that significantly affect your internal dialogue, thoughts and emotions after they pass away.
3. Reduce feelings of guilt, shame, anger and pain within yourself for not expressing what mattered to you while this was still possible.
4. Strengthen the connection and harmony during the last months of your relationship so you can better accompany them in this emotional period in which they need warmth, affection, care, empathy and compassion.
5. Bring closure to the relationship, so you have a smile on your face and peace in your heart when you think of memories.
6. Honour and celebrate the life you lived together.
To help you achieve this, you get access to the accompanying
Reflection Program & Journal in which I show you how to use my
‘5 Steps to Inner Peace and Connection Reflection Process’.
The content of the modules as well as the reflection journal and feelings & needs lists, are available in English and Dutch.
Foundation for understanding the process of self-empathy and for using the Reflection Process in your journal
15 Writing Prompts, Guidance & Inspiration for each need to help you expand your perspective and reflect on each specific need.
A printable Reflection Journal to reflect on all the needs, which together creates your own collection of valuable insights and requests.
Feelings & Needs Lists to help you identify and name feelings and needs, and empathize with yourself and others.
Card Sets are available in English, Dutch, French and Slovene
Choose the language closest to the heart of the person you will be sending all your cards to.
Note: The needs on the front of the card appear in your chosen language. The Reflection Program, the Journal and Feelings & Needs Lists are in English and Dutch.
Card Sets are available in English, Dutch, French and Slovene
Choose the language closest to the heart of the person you will be sending all your cards to.
Note: The needs on the front of the card appear in your chosen language. The Reflection Program, the Journal and Feelings & Needs Lists are in English and Dutch.
How to use of the Card Set of The Swan Collection
Choose the card you want to send
Each card represents a universal human need that has and hasn’t been met in your relationship.
Use the Journal offered in the Reflect and journaling prompts
You are guided in reflecting on your relationship and how your person contributed to your life and well-being.
Write your message in the card
Choose which part of your reflection contributes to experiencing inner peace, harmony and connection.
Mail the card
Yes, your gift of empathy, solace, love, mourning and gratitude arrives by post so they can hold your gift in their hands.
Repeat the previous steps for all 15 cards
Or as many cards you like to send.
Facts & Choices
This Card Set and Reflection Program & Journal can be used by …
… you
To be guided in expressing yourself as an exquisite gift during this last phase of your relationship.
… a person you care about who is about to lose someone.
Send it as a heart warming gift of love and compassion.
What will you receive?
Instant Access to the Reflection Program at the Visual Empathy Shop
Foundation for understanding the process of self-empathy and for using the Reflection Process
Guidance & Inspiration for each card to help you expand your perspective and reflect on each specific need.
A printable Reflection Journal to reflect, collect valuable insights and to formulate your message to the receiver of your cards.
Feelings & Needs Lists to help you identify and name feelings and needs, and empathize with yourself and others.
What will you receive?
By post & email >>>
15 writing prompts
One prompt for each need/card, to help you reflect on your relationship.
15 different cards
to send to the person you are about to lose.
15 white envelopes
so you can post the card immediately after you’ve written your message.
1 card to keep for yourself
In memory of reflecting and sharing your last words, the last card with all the visuals of The Swan Collection is yours to keep.
Order in your desired language …
The needs on the front of the cards appear in your chosen language.
The Reflection Program, Journal and Feelings and Needs Lists are in English and Dutch.
€59,-
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English and Dutch orders are shipped within 1-2 days!
French & Slovene orders will be shipped by the end of October/beginning of November!
With gratitude for Hospice ‘De Liefde’ in Rotterdam …
… for all their care, love, attention, listening and guidance.
And with special appreciation for the 40 volunteers working there, for dedicating their time to supporting the residents to live in a peaceful and loving home.
The Visual Mediator
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8000 Novo mesto, Slovenia
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